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Hi, Everyone, If you are wondering whether or not,I am still Answering Questions The Answer Is YES, So If you want to Ask a question, then just post it, or if you would rather not let everyone see your question, then email me, at heavenlymadison@yahoo.com, And I will answer it as soon as I can, I will Be posting a part two of “How To Know If A Guy Likes You, If He is Whipped,Or If he just wants to hit it,quit it, and be done with it.” And If you want me to post a part two of anything else, just ask, Or If you want me to write about something else ask me, and I will Make sure I do it, Until Then , I’ll be looking for your questions, and suggestions,

Sincerely Miss Advice,

For Jenna

Question:

how do i get my boyfriend to care and come around more..
how do i get him whipped

Answer & Advice:

Hi Jenna,sorry it took SO LONG for me to answer your question, I have been REALLY busy lately, But To answer your question, The number one thing that I can tell you is that, Don’t make yourself convient to him, Dont chase him down, like calling him 99 times a day, and he only calls you two or three times a day, only so , he can say he called, I know alot of people say Let him chase you, on my opinon, NO ONE SHOULD BE CHASING ANYONE IN A RELATIONSHIP, The love for each other, should be equal, that is a healthy relationship right there,And sometimes when he calls, dont run to the phone answer like on the second or third ring, Dont play so hard to get, where he will be like “Do I Even Have A Girlfriend?”, when he ask something like this, that means you are playing to hard to get, and instead it will draw him further away from you then closer, Getting a guy whipped, Is actually not as hard as some think, They say if your mean to him, then he will get whipped, which in some cases IS TRUE, but its wrong, so I dont do that anymore, …….moving along, Like I said ,Making yourself to available  to him, may lead him to think that If he cheated on you,or did something wrong to you, That you would take him back in a heartbeat, and he should never think that ,-)

Hope I helped, Sincerly Miss Advice

Flirting Do’s & Donts ,-)

Flirting- is an attitude
A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive.

Okay, Today I will be Talking About Flirting, And Giving You Alot of Flirting Tips, I almost forgot to Post this but thanks to one of my commenters Maxima,I have remembered,Flirting for me, never was hard, actually it camed natural to me to flirt, the number one thing I always did was make steady eye contact for about 3 secs. and look away, and sometimes smile at them, And the funny thing was I didn’t even know I was flirting with them, I kinda was embarrassed, when I found out it was flirting, but I am thankful that I didn’t have to go around asking how to flirt, ,- But for Those Who Are confused, Here Are some Tips, That Will Have him falling for you ,-)***************************************************************************

*Eye contact is a MUST  as everyone says. Look at him for a moment, and smile for another two, then wink with a grin and go back to doing or staring at whatever it was you were before.
* If you’re sitting; cross your leg, so your foot is pointing towards him, normally its a sign you like the person your foot is pointed towards. and it shows a little leg;]
* When you don’t know whether he likes you or not and you haven’t talked to him for awhile.. Don’t be the 1st one to do everything. Big DONT,, way to look desperado, defiantly. But text him one day… and maybe days later another or call. If he doesn’t reply after the 2-3try Don’t waste your time, he probably wont ever return your messages.
*When talking/flirting with a guy slightly lean towards him, it shows interest and not only in the subject but him too.
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*When a guys jaw is flexed it can mean he really wants to do somthing crazy to you:], or that he’s sorely pissed; depending on the situation.
*If his veins are bumped with blood and you can see them popping out some, like he jsut went running, he’s majorly turned on by you.
*If he keeps looking at your lips, hes so ready for a kiss
*And if you’re alone with him and have a wall or somthing stable like that, surprise him by randomly grabbing low on his hips and pushing against him, like a boyfriend sandwich between U & the Wall. Full on arrousing him with a love-thirsty, leaveing him wanting more, kiss. Doesnt even have to be french, though that would deepens it, but deep and hard. Remember not to push TO hard, or you’ll end up hitting his head or something and have his attention where you don’t want.

*Be Confident, no Boy Likes A Girl, who is always walking with her head down, while walking, or even sitting down and eating, Or walking around with a sad lonely look on their face, sometimes boys think if your sad and lonely,If he gets in a relationship with you, then what are you going to make him in the relationship?, SAD, and that is just a big signal, when your smiling or walking with your head up,and having a soft look on your face,When you get in a relationship it shouldnt bring sadness, it should bring even more joy to your life =)

*Smile as much as you can and don’t cross your arms or anything like that,& You can stand close to him without freaking him out, Just stand at his side and you’ll be touching him without making him uncomfortable

Dont Be Desperate, Like Following him around (he might just think your crazy and a stalker)If He is Really into you He will start up a conversation, some kind of way, without you doing something crazy like that

*Dont Act Like Your Easy To get with like Showing off your Thong, Or Showing Too much Clevage, he will think your easy and disposable and a one night hit,

*Dont Act Immature, by talking loud when he is around, tripping up on something and falling on your face just to get his attention,

Dont Have A Attuide,No Matter How Beautiful You are if your attitude sucks, then Looks Are Out The Door,

Do Go up and Talk To Him If your Not Shy, and spark a conversation, this may impress him, and also surpise him, and make it easier and comfortable for him to be around you

*Now If your an Aggressive Flirter, Then Look at him for about 3 secs, and Then Biting Down On Your Lip, Will blow his mind

*If your walking somewhere and you “accidentaly” drop your books or something in your hand, see if he rushes to help, and then spark a conversation from there,

*Dont Make Him Jealous by flirting with another guy in front of his face, he might think that you are Immature, Although sometimes if he is flirting with other girls in front of your face, and he knows you  have feelings for him, then If I were you, I would flirt with other Boys, And show him, that Two can Play That game, number Two, He is also a PLAYER, if he is flirting with about 2 or 3 girls at one time, dont get too attached to this guy then,

Use props
Never leave home without a prop. Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props include dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a fabulous scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion, unusual ties, hats, or an interesting book or newspaper.

Be the host
Change your behavior from guest to host. You are not a passive person waiting around for romance; instead, you’re the welcome committee.

*Make the first move
Move closer to the person you want to meet. Say hello.

*Listen
You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard.

*Eye contact
Please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than a few seconds) and then glance away. Don’t stare — it’s a turn off.

*Compliment
Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise. The “flirtee” will know that you really noticed them. Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment, the best response is a simple “Thank you!”

*Smile
It’s contagious. Smiling makes you so much more approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You’ll be a people magnet.

*The guy that you have a crush on is a little ‘popular’ or ’stylish’ then, honestly, don’t dress like a slob. Guys like it when girls actually put an effort into what they look like; it shows that they have good self esteem. Think about it; would you like a girl that wears her hair all sloppy and dresses in baggy clothes? I wouldn’t. Dress nicely, remember to act like a lady, and do NOT by all means yell when he’s around. Guys don’t like it when girls yell or laugh loudly. It annoys them. It’s best if you keep to a quiet, flirty sort of style. Guys also like it when girls play hard to get

*If you are too mysterious, guys like it, but it makes you seem very unapproachable

*Lower your voice when in a crowded room so that your partner has to lean towards you to catch your words

*Playing with hair, a straw or stirrer can be alluring to men when done right,

*Never look down when speaking while flirting, look at the person you are flirting with and try to make regular eye contact. Remember you are flirting with them, you’re not flirting with the ground.

*Try not to fidget when flirting. Fidgeting will make it look like you are uncomfortable and nervous. This might well be the case, but you don’t want to let the person you are flirting with know.

*Don’t cross your arms across your chest as this comes over as defensive and the last thing you are trying to be when flirting is defensive.

*Sit up straight with your chin up when flirting, slouching will give off the wrong impression

Well, I hope I helped anyone who was looking for something likes this,Remember, To always be yourself no matter what, ,-)

You really like this boy, he is constantly flirting with you,…but he has a GIRLFRIEND,why does he flirt with you ,when he is off limits?

So, you meet this Boy Or Man, and he is fine, has a great personaitly, and you all have tons of things in common, & then he flirts with you alot, flashing that gorgeous smile, or staring at your eyes, dreamily, or just constantly looking at you, sound like a perfect love story, right?,One thing he HAS A GIRLFRIEND,which automatically means HANDS OFF, and thats exactly, what you try to do, but he just keeps on and on, leading you on, with his dreaming gazes, and flirting, he just wont stop, and your feelings for him or getting deeper,and deeper, by the day, and sometimes you just wish that you would have never meet him, because thats how deep your feelings are for him, you wish you could just erase those feelings, and move on,

Well, first off, this guy has no class at all, he is a low down dirty dog, for flirting with you, knowing he has a girlfriend, I mean, it is okay to look,Just because you go in a relationship, that doesn’t mean you go blind…….. but dreamily staring, or smiling and staring is off limits, that is giving that girl a signal that he likes her, and he is  playing with her emotions, as if they are a game, and that is really wrong, This guy thinks he is a player, actually he is a major player, unless his relationship is on the rocks, then maybe, he is starting to look at his options, and maybe your one of them, so if you do happen to find this out, you can flirt a little bit, but dont let any emotions get attached until he is single and ready to mingle, because he might break with his girlfriend and get back with her 2 or 3 months later,so you never know, But if they just started dating not to long ago, he probably doesnt really care about his realtionship, at all, nor of course his girlfriend, so when he starts dating you , what do you think he is going to do to you?, the same thing that he is doing to his previous girlfriend cheating on her, and flirting with other girls, and you probably arent the first girl he has flirted with since he has gotten into a realtionship, he probably has flirted with about 4 or 5 more girls, Sometimes boy have a girlfriend just for show, to show that he is a good man, or a nice guy, but behind close doors, he is a Player, of course there girlfriend doesnt know this, but he does,bottom line, of you know or have encountered a guy like this its probably okay to do some innocent flirting, but dont get emotinally attached, because you might get your heart broken, and dont buy into his “I am going to leave her soon,”, or “Me and my girlfriend dont even sleep together anymore”, Things like that, or something similar to it, he is just probably filling your mind up with these lies, and to you its like music to your ears, you are just buying it, and sometimes you do see the signs that he is a Player, but try to ignore, Go with your instincts, because 9 out of 10 times they are right, ,-)

Hope I helped, to anyone, who was looking for something like this ,-)

How To Avoid Being Used,and Played

Today I will Talking about how to avoid being used,

Lets say you meet this nice,fine guy somewhere, and you two meet eyes and you both give each other a warm smile to each other, this gives him a good signal that he can walk over and say hi, there he comes walking over with his eyes set on you, and he immediately, gives his number, or a card with his number, or a piece of paper, and then begins to walk away, like the player that he might be, but instead, you grab him back and say, no,you take my number, he is shocked by this, but he takes the number anyway, he calls you when you get home, then phone rings,and rings,and rings, you dont answer, you sit there by the phone looking at the caller id, one thing that I am trying to say, dont make your self “to available  or to convenient” to that boy, because then he probably isnt going to want you as bad, because he knows that when he calls you are going to run to the phone to answer on the first rang, and please dont call him 99 times a day, no boy or girl, likes to be chased down all the time, it makes you look very desperate, and this makes him think, if I cheat on her,she will be her tomorrow, and dont let him visit on late nights, this is a good example that he is using you and sees you as a one night hit,

Unless he was working late, or had to go and see about one of his family members, or something, thats is probably excusable, but if he is not taking you out, and what my mother calls it “showing you off to the world”, then, he probably just sees you as a one night hit,

If you see him surrounded by girls all the time, he probably a player, avoid him, but sometimes girls are attracted to these guys, Sometimes, because they have some kind of coolness about them that attracts us, they have that kind of attitude that is like “I Dont care of you walk out the door tomorrow,..bye, I didnt need you anyway” kind of attitude, but sometimes at heart they really do care about you, but they dont act desperate, no one wants be suffocated by someones love, its annoying, at times, ,-)

For Laura

Question:

I am in need of seriosu advice! I feel liek this guy only wants me physically. i met him 2 weeks after he broke up withhis girlfriend of 2 years. and we hooked up the second time we met. since then weve been seeing eachother. but we only see eachother when we are with his friends, then i end up sleeping over at his house. i feel liek its obvius that hes using me, but at the same time ive grown strong feelings for him. he has told me before that he likes me and woudl love to date me, but only when i brought up the topic.
i know that he has hooked up with one girl since weve been seeing eachother. but then he told me the only reason why he did that was becuase he heard that i hooked up with someone else.. AND I DIDNT.
i feel liek i shoudl just drop it and forget about him, but i dont know what to say to him and i dont know when its a good time to talk about it.
it woudl be really cool if you could help me i woudl realllyyy appreciate it

Answer & Advice:

Laura, you said that you met him 2 weeks after he broke up with his girlfriend of 2 years, that makes me think , that he still has feelings for her, and really isnt ready to commit to you, maybe he is afraid of getting hurt again, but thats only if his girlfriend hurt him, I have seen alot of guys do this, my ex-boyfriend and me were in a 3 year relationship, and then we he broke up with me, he kinda went wild,and was using girls just for sex, i dont know, if it was because he was tired of commitment, or I had hurt him so bad, that he refused to like a girl again,without using her, Well, Is this guy only trying to see you late at night?, Or whenever you see him, is it always at his house,?, if you answered yes, to these questions,then yes,he is probably using you, and also when you said he was seeing another girl,and said he only did it, because he heard you were doing the same, THAT is  a perfect excuse for a guy, I have heard so many guys say this to girls, It sounds like this guy isnt ready for commitment, I would drop him for now, and go find someone else, dont spend the rest of your life with a jerk, go find Mr.Right, Tell him, if he isnt ready for a commitment, to a relationshiptalk about it when you two are alone, and also If i were you I would stop going over his house late at night, (if you are), You are giving him a chance to use you, and dont make your self soavailable  to him, like calling him a thousand times a day, and he only calls you once, so many girls do that, I’ll be talking about that today though, of how to avoid guys using you, until then, if this wasnt enough advice, then, you can always ask your question again, and put more detail into it ,-) with you, then you are out the door, because you deserve someone who is going to treat you right, and that you are tired of waiting up for him, because there is some guy out there that would love to be with you, for you, not just for sex,

For Meagan,

Question:

How can i tell if he likes me? clues included?
So theres this guy that lives in my neighboorhood. theres only one problem. hes 19 and lets say i just came a teenager.
He does act like he likes me and there are 3 other girls in my neighboorhood. 15, 13, and 11. I was tlkng 2 my Sophia. & she told me all of the reasons y she thinks he likes me.
1.He allways smiles when hes around me.And iv noticed that.
2.He allways talks to me and not to sophia or the 15 year old(Andrea).
3.There was this one time when him and his 10 year old brother where playing w/ a laser and the guy just happened to notice i was in my window so they shined it up there while i was on the phone with andrea.
4. He allways pretend punches me and puts his hand on my shoulder.
S. and i made a bet that if this guy(lets call him scoobie) asks her out then the other guy likes me b/c andrea said he does & told me y so we think we should trust he instincts.
5.He allways looks @ me & S. says he thks im hot cuz he allways looks& me even when im looking. any help here?!

Answer & Advice:

Meagan,It sounds like this guy likes you alot, If he smiles at you alot, that means, he is happy to be around you, this is a big sign that he likes you, And when you said that he pretends punching you,and putting his hand on your shoulder, he is probably getting an excuse to touch you,most guys do this, either they will do that, or they will “accidentally” bump into you, & if your still a teen,and he is 19, take it slow, and dont rush into anything to soon, unless you want, and when you said that he talks to you and not the others girls, that is a big clue, that he is giving you special attention, and he is trying to make you feel, special, like your the only girl that matters to him, ,-),Also when you said he is 19, and you just got into your teens, you might not want to go to public with the relationship right now, wait til you at least about 16, love doesnt have a age, but your parents might mind, I was in the situation, once, I was 13,and my bf, was 18,lol ,-),

Clues:He stares at you even when you are not looking, sometimes if he is bold enough, and not as shy he might hold the eye contact for about 3 secs or more,

He sometimes says the dumbest thing, to you, just to spark a conversation

He brushes his hair, or flex his muscle, to try to impresss you

He picks on you sometimes, but not to where you will be pissed off at him

He always finds the time to come to just say hi, and see how you are doing

Sometimes a guy jokes, or teases on you though, because he likes you alot, and cares about you, and sees you as a friend ,and also a girlfriend,

When one of your friends or somone says your sick,he get worried

hope I help, anymore questions, ask me, =)

Is He Playing You? also discussing… is your BoyFriend, A player?,

Have you ever really liked a boy, but you didnt know if they felt the same, They probably were attracted to you,…… but they were physical attracted to you, but you on the other hand, were probably emotional attracted to them, which meant you liked their personaility, and not just the way they looked,

Alright let me jump straight to the point, When other guys are around talking to you ,is he showing any sign of getting angry, ?, when others guys are talking about you, does he jump to defend you?, if he does, then this is a sign that he is really into you, Whenever you ask about his personal life, does he try to avoid answering you?, or sometimes, players can be smart, and act as if they are so in love with you, and then all of the sudden boom, they are gone, faster than a heartbeat, You can spot a player, from a distacne watch how he acts towards his friends, or even other women, if he is flirting with other girls, in front of you, or women, he is a player, with a capital P, unless he is trying to make you jealous, that is a different story,

Now if you are in a relationship right now,with a boy who you think is a player,then let me talk about that to, I have a friend she is in high school right now, a senior, and when every her boyfriend(ex boyfriend now), would come around her, when they were out in public, he didnt want to be around her, he didnt want to hold her hand, nor, stand near her, and when he was with her he would act all nervous, like he was trying to hide the fact that they were togehter, sometimes boys go with a girl, and get in a realtionship, with the girl, just to have sex with her, and sometimes they stick around but act like assholes, that they probably are truely are, boys that I know have even admitted to this they will stay in a relationship as long as they can just to get some, and it makes me think to myself, either they aint getting none, or they are just damn deserpate, sad, but so true, If your boyfriend doesnt introduce you to his friends,sometimes this could mean he is just trying to hit that, and drop you like a bomb,

If he is always trying to kiss you on you, and you told him the 100th time, you arent ready, either his hormones are high, or is trying to hurry up and hit that, you’d probably be surpised, but then again , you probably wouldnt, Guys gossip just as much as girls, do, and sometimes, when him and friends keep glancing back at you, he is probably saying things like “Would you hit that?”, Or “I’d hit that”. or he is probably saying “Isnt she a cutie”?

I had a bad experience one time with this guy me and him had been dating for about 8 months, I could have swore he was my soul mate, or something, but then the 9 month we were dating, he camed to school with a picture of his girlfriend, on his T-shirt, that i thought he had been broken up with it said I love Yokasha, it broke my heart, because I had never saw them together, nor did he even mention anything, about her, nor, did I get any vibes or clues,that he was still going out with her, anyway he dropped me like a bomb, and never even talked to me again, I saw him last year, and that was the last time I saw him , before he was killed in a car accident, two months later, even though, he did me wrong, I will always lov e him, and I forgive him, for what he did to me,

I have been played 2 times, I know alot about players any questions, or advice ask me, ,-)

How to know when a guy likes you,if he is whipped….., or just wants to hit it, quit it, and be done with it,

First let me start off with if he REALLY likes you

A guy that really likes you will want to be around you all the time, unless he is the shy type, then he may stay his distance, , a guy that really likes you, won’t disrespect you, some guys that are very arugmental, may pick at you, and even sometimes be mean to you, they only do this because they really love you, has your crush every been around you, and he talks to everyone at the table, except  YOU, ?, and you kinda feel invisible?, sometimes boys do this because they think that if they conversate with your friends, it would somehow get your attention, , , Have you ever been somewhere , and your crush was around, and they see you, and all the sudden get really loud, they are not doing this because they have a big ass mouth, they are more likely doing it to impress you, this is probably when you have this guy whipped, meaning he will do anything you say, , aka, wrapped around your finger, If this guy takes time out to spend with you instead of hanging with his home boys, or friends, then, you also have this guy whipped, and sometimes, he might just be staring at you when you arent looking, a guy that likes you will want to hold your hand, , take you out, , and mean, lets face it, if he just wanted to hit it, then, why would he want to show you off?, A guy that likes you for you, will talk to you, if you are looking nice that day, or looking like you just got out of bed, this is the kind of guy that you stick with, bad attuide or not that day, he is able to deal with it,

If a boy just wants to hit it and quit it,

If a boy just want to just hit it, , his eyes will mostly be focusing on your body on the time, , he only comes around when you look good, , he doesnt want to talk about his personal life, because then, that would make you get attached to him, and thats the last thing he wants, , and if he tells you something about his personal life, he is more than likely lying , , When you two conversate is the conversation, mostly focused on sex, is he throwing hints about sex, ?, Some boys  just talk about sex, or may just throw it at you( a comment), maybe because his foot is in his mouth, , and he is nervous, and only wants your attention, and wants a little small talk, Does this boy care about your emotions, like when your sad, or mad, ?, does he even bother to ask, ?, If a boy really likes you then, he cares about you, , He will talk to you like he would with one of his homeboys, , IF this boy is constantly licking his lips at you , more than likely he wants to just hit that,

Here’s a little non-verbal language for you also,

If a guy touches you on your arm, he is saying I want to be close with you, I want to get to know you as a person,

Now, if a guy touches you on your waist, then, he is saying, I want to have sex with you, I see you as a sexual partner, , ,

If a guy has his legs wide open he is trying to to tell you you what he has to offer below the belt,

If a guy is tryin to hug you or hold your hand, or wraps his arms around you, then he trying to tell you he is open for a relationship,

Sometimes if a guy likes you his feet will be pointing in your direction, even when he isnt facing you, they could be facing your way, ‘

If he is constantly brushing his hair or flexing his muscles, while your around him, then, that means he is trying to look good for you , or impress you

If you have any questions, or anything about relationships ask me, , I could probably give you good advice ,-)

Eye Contact With A Guy & What It Means

Have you ever been hanging with your girls, and all of the sudden this sexy guy passes by, and you all just lock eyes, and its alot, for that one moment everything just goes in slow motion, and nothing else matters in the world, and after he walks away, and the eye contact is over chills go over your body, for some guys is LUST, at first sight, for others it could be love at first sight,

If his head is cocked to the side, and he is smiling and making eye contact with you, and your wondering what he is thinking in his mind, it could be “When you going to let me hit that”?, If his mouth is sightly parted open, when he stares at you, his breath is probably took away by your beauty,If he stares at you dreamily, and he is almost hypnotized, then you are stunningly beautiful to him, and he could be falling in love with you, if he stares with a blank expression, no smile, no NOTHING,This is the shy type of guy, or either, you probably have something on your face, or… he is probably scared that if he smiles at you, you wont smile back, and then he will only feel rejected, and who wants that?, A boy that is confident, about himself,will smile at you, and see if you respond,and when he gets up enough courage he might come and talk to you, these are the outgoing guys, what this says about him, is that he might be a talkative guy, and you might wont EVER be bored with him, besides who wants a boring guy, ..I dont…at least,

Something that you should defiantly remember is if he is comfortable around you, and comfortable smiling and staring at you all the time,then he probably only wants to sleep with you…………………………………………………….