Is He Playing You? also discussing… is your BoyFriend, A player?,
Have you ever really liked a boy, but you didnt know if they felt the same, They probably were attracted to you,…… but they were physical attracted to you, but you on the other hand, were probably emotional attracted to them, which meant you liked their personaility, and not just the way they looked,
Alright let me jump straight to the point, When other guys are around talking to you ,is he showing any sign of getting angry, ?, when others guys are talking about you, does he jump to defend you?, if he does, then this is a sign that he is really into you, Whenever you ask about his personal life, does he try to avoid answering you?, or sometimes, players can be smart, and act as if they are so in love with you, and then all of the sudden boom, they are gone, faster than a heartbeat, You can spot a player, from a distacne watch how he acts towards his friends, or even other women, if he is flirting with other girls, in front of you, or women, he is a player, with a capital P, unless he is trying to make you jealous, that is a different story,
Now if you are in a relationship right now,with a boy who you think is a player,then let me talk about that to, I have a friend she is in high school right now, a senior, and when every her boyfriend(ex boyfriend now), would come around her, when they were out in public, he didnt want to be around her, he didnt want to hold her hand, nor, stand near her, and when he was with her he would act all nervous, like he was trying to hide the fact that they were togehter, sometimes boys go with a girl, and get in a realtionship, with the girl, just to have sex with her, and sometimes they stick around but act like assholes, that they probably are truely are, boys that I know have even admitted to this they will stay in a relationship as long as they can just to get some, and it makes me think to myself, either they aint getting none, or they are just damn deserpate, sad, but so true, If your boyfriend doesnt introduce you to his friends,sometimes this could mean he is just trying to hit that, and drop you like a bomb,
If he is always trying to kiss you on you, and you told him the 100th time, you arent ready, either his hormones are high, or is trying to hurry up and hit that, you’d probably be surpised, but then again , you probably wouldnt, Guys gossip just as much as girls, do, and sometimes, when him and friends keep glancing back at you, he is probably saying things like “Would you hit that?”, Or “I’d hit that”. or he is probably saying “Isnt she a cutie”?
I had a bad experience one time with this guy me and him had been dating for about 8 months, I could have swore he was my soul mate, or something, but then the 9 month we were dating, he camed to school with a picture of his girlfriend, on his T-shirt, that i thought he had been broken up with it said I love Yokasha, it broke my heart, because I had never saw them together, nor did he even mention anything, about her, nor, did I get any vibes or clues,that he was still going out with her, anyway he dropped me like a bomb, and never even talked to me again, I saw him last year, and that was the last time I saw him , before he was killed in a car accident, two months later, even though, he did me wrong, I will always lov e him, and I forgive him, for what he did to me,
I have been played 2 times, I know alot about players any questions, or advice ask me, ,-)
I am in need of seriosu advice! I feel liek this guy only wants me physically. i met him 2 weeks after he broke up withhis girlfriend of 2 years. and we hooked up the second time we met. since then weve been seeing eachother. but we only see eachother when we are with his friends, then i end up sleeping over at his house. i feel liek its obvius that hes using me, but at the same time ive grown strong feelings for him. he has told me before that he likes me and woudl love to date me, but only when i brought up the topic.
i know that he has hooked up with one girl since weve been seeing eachother. but then he told me the only reason why he did that was becuase he heard that i hooked up with someone else.. AND I DIDNT.
i feel liek i shoudl just drop it and forget about him, but i dont know what to say to him and i dont know when its a good time to talk about it.
it woudl be really cool if you could help me i woudl realllyyy appreciate it
Go cold on him. It’s the only way. Fill your life with every little thing but him. Don’t take his calls immediately, don’t return calls or texts immediately. But when you do, be a happy person, with no hint that the happiness relates to him (cos it wont’ let’s face it).
If he doesn’t miss you, want you, chase you then continue cold spell for…well…forever.
This guy once came up to me asked for my number, I gave it to him. He txted me later and we got really close, he would tell me the sweetest things in the world, he even dedicated me a song. We got really close, and in school he would always want to be around me, and would ask me why I had ignored him, when I didn’t even see him. He tried to kiss me one time, and I said we should wait, he said ok. He would give me kisses on the cheek and we would always hug. Then one time he almost kissed me, he apologized. I though he was the one. Only thing, every other day we would txt we would get in a fight. sometimes small. only 2 major ones. Then one time he txted me saying he didn’t want to talk anymore, and said not to ask questions. I didn’t. He then txted me later on the same day, saying he was sorry. He told me his ex gf cried when he told her we were talking. but that it was all cleared up. Everything was fine, then one day the subject of his ex came out,again. He said he liked me but still felt something towards her. We got in a major fight, and then we got okay, then he got mad at me for a misworded txt. Idk, what he txted back. But I’m pretty sure he is mad. We stopped talking for 2 days. Then in school, we usualy meet each other as we pass classes, but I didn’t wait for him, because I thought he was mad, and i think he got mad. I really like him, and I tried txting him , but he won’t answer. What should I do?? People say he is a player, but I don’t believe so.. AT ALL. Is he a player?? What do i do?