How To Avoid Being Used,and Played

Today I will Talking about how to avoid being used,

Lets say you meet this nice,fine guy somewhere, and you two meet eyes and you both give each other a warm smile to each other, this gives him a good signal that he can walk over and say hi, there he comes walking over with his eyes set on you, and he immediately, gives his number, or a card with his number, or a piece of paper, and then begins to walk away, like the player that he might be, but instead, you grab him back and say, no,you take my number, he is shocked by this, but he takes the number anyway, he calls you when you get home, then phone rings,and rings,and rings, you dont answer, you sit there by the phone looking at the caller id, one thing that I am trying to say, dont make your self “to available  or to convenient” to that boy, because then he probably isnt going to want you as bad, because he knows that when he calls you are going to run to the phone to answer on the first rang, and please dont call him 99 times a day, no boy or girl, likes to be chased down all the time, it makes you look very desperate, and this makes him think, if I cheat on her,she will be her tomorrow, and dont let him visit on late nights, this is a good example that he is using you and sees you as a one night hit,

Unless he was working late, or had to go and see about one of his family members, or something, thats is probably excusable, but if he is not taking you out, and what my mother calls it “showing you off to the world”, then, he probably just sees you as a one night hit,

If you see him surrounded by girls all the time, he probably a player, avoid him, but sometimes girls are attracted to these guys, Sometimes, because they have some kind of coolness about them that attracts us, they have that kind of attitude that is like “I Dont care of you walk out the door tomorrow,..bye, I didnt need you anyway” kind of attitude, but sometimes at heart they really do care about you, but they dont act desperate, no one wants be suffocated by someones love, its annoying, at times, ,-)

~ by MissAdvice on July 22, 2008.