Have you ever met a guy who seemed like a nice gentlemen at first?He seemed almost too perfect and too nice to you?

Turns out he was.

He’s a dog..and you should NEVER have time to train him. Yet,you stick around hoping that it’s just something he’s going through to cause him to act like such a asshole(that he truly he is)

When a guy feels like he has a “hold” on you or some type of power on you sometimes if they are complete assholes then they will start to treat you like sh*t. Of course they don’t start acting like that when they have first meet you, because they want to “win” you over.

[Side Note:Not all guys are assholes. Never be afraid to fall in love with someone. You just have to be careful about who you choose to fall in love with.]

But, one by one they will slowly start to test you and piss you off.They are testing you out like a guinea pig to see what you will tolerate.When he starts doing this, you need to start walking out the door. He is being a asshole on purpose.

Some Examples of him “Testing You”

*Texting other girls in front of you..No They aren’t “Friendly” text..He just has you thinking that.

*Talking over you when you and your friends are in a conversation,as if you do not matter

*He won’t pick up his phone…when you call…….even though it laying right next to him..

*He talks and flirts with girls right in front of you..as if your not even there …to him your not.

*He ask you to do him a favor….”Can you do my homework for me?” Oh..so now your his damn maid.

*He doesn’t show up when you want him to…He shows up when he gets ready to.

*He makes promises, that he KNOWS he is not going to keep..before he even makes them to you.

*He talks to you as if your nothing…and sees if you’ll stay with him..chances are..you will..in his mind he is going “Misson Accomplished…..I can do whatever I want

*He cheats on you the first time..you may curse him out…cut his tires..smash his windows out…but you STILL stay with him.Which means he will probably cheat again..and again..and again…because he knows your tolerance level. If he doesn’t cheat again, he is doing it out of fear of his Tires getting slashed,his windows getting smashed,or that awful mouth of yours cursing him out.But where is the love for you? A man should not want to cheat on you, because he loves you unconditionally and does not want any girl or woman besides you, not because he is scared of the monster in you.

You are still tolerating him.Also cursing him out,and cutting his tires,and even smashing out his windows proves that he has “power” over you. You are letting him get to you. You are letting him make you mad.Why?Is he really worth it? All of the time you are putting in bashing him,you could be out there find Mr.Right.Meanwhile though, you are too busy putting up with Mr.Wrong’s bullsh*t.

The question is ;Why do women stay with men that treat them this way?

Are they just too damn nice? So blindsided by love that they try to look over the Man’s “mistakes”? First off,if a man is treating you this way then it’s not love.A woman needs to love herself..any woman who constantly puts up with this kind of crap..must not realize how important it is to love herself first.She puts his needs and wants before her own. It is not love when a guy is putting you down emotionally and physically. When he says you are a piece of sh*t,because you didn’t do something the way he wanted it..that is not love.When he flirts with other women right in front of you is not LOVE.Also, when he man keeps making the same “Mistakes”..it’s not longer a mistake. A mistake is something you by accident..not intended. But when it is done on purpose..it is not a mistake..when he keeps doing it. Just to piss you off.

What is Love?

Love is when he treats you the way you need and want to be treated.

When you stay in a relationship where a man treats you like sh*t..is that the way you want to be treated? I hope that answer is NO.

Women need to stop putting up with these assholes.Life is to short to share it with a selfish,low-down, asshole who does not have self-respect for himself or you.Sometimes women do not have high self-esteem about themselves or any confidence about themselves and put up with a guy because they fear of being alone. They feel they need a man in their life. You should never feel like you need a man. You should always want a man..but never ever NEED.

Sincerely,Miss Advice.