When it comes to sex,women really do hold all the cards. Not only that,but all the power also.
Yea, it’s a simple as that.
If the woman doesn’t give up the “goods” then he does not have the “power”.
Men will not stop chasing you until they get what they want. Well,unless they get tired of chasing you..those guys weren’t worthy of your goodies anyway then.
If you make a man wait for goods then..when he does get them he would feel as if he won the lottery.Of course if “sex” is the only good thing you feel you have to offer..then that is not good. Unless that is all you want to offer…or feel that is the only worthy thing of you is your sex…”because it’s so amazing..explosive…wild..kinky..freaky…..etc”
If you want a relationship with a guy then you must have other good qualities about you besides sex.Yes physical attraction is a part of the reason he has approached you..but you need a personality for him to have any kind of emotional connection.If you just have this beautiful face and nice body without a personality that is all you have nothing else and defiantly nothing more.He will only want to sleep with you and then go his way.
Bottom line.Don’t do short terms with someone and expect long-term things out of the situation.If you sleep with a guy you have only known for a few days or weeks or even a month…what do you expect? A fairy tale ending?
Every guy that first meets you will have sex on their mind. Because they do not know who you are. They have not established that emotional connection with you. They all see physical. They will continue to chase you, but YOU have the “power”. Don’t give up so easily. Respect yourself!
After dating him for months..you ask..Is he worthy of my Goods?
How to tell If he is worthy
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He Calls without you reminded him
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He actually listens to you when two talk
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He respects you
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He doesn’t bring up the topic of sex or pressure you to have sex every-time you two are alone.
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He doesn’t just tell you he loves you, he shows you
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His actions speak louder than words;If he says he is going to do something he does it
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He is your best friend;He is Trust-worthy
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He is always there for you when you need him most
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He doesn’t put you down,he encourages you
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He makes you feel like your “The Only Girl in the World”
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He doesn’t start arguments……about why the sun is yellow and the grass is green..He doesn’t argue about stupid stuff.
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He is not jealous,controlling and possessive.
When He’s Not Worthy of Your Goods
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When you call he will not answer
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He’s a big ass liar…and you know it.
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He seems annoyed because you won’t give up the goods fast enough
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His favorite word is..*drumroll* Sex..he can not stop bringing it up and mentioning it every-time you two are alone.
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He can’t get enough of you;you always find his hands somewhere on your body..feeling on you everywhere.
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His lips are always trying to be best friends with your lips,your neck,and wherever else you ALLOW them to go.
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He is never there when you ask him…or when you need him.
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He just can’t trust him
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He talks to ALOT of girls
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He degrades women,and has no respect for them,and only sees them as a sex object.
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He makes you feel like your doing something wrong by not having sex with him
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Your “Lame” for not taking off your pants for him
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“If you loved him” or wanted to “Prove your love” you would give up the goods…
Not True. -
He reminds you of how long you two have been dating..so you can say “You know what we have been together for a really long time…maybe it is time to give it up.”…….Even though you have only been dating for 3 weeks.Or maybe you’re not dating at all “Just Flirting” or better yet..”Hanging Out.”
January 4, 2011
MissAdvice
