I had previously wrote a article on this topic several years ago when I first started this advice blog 4 years ago. However, that article was not as clear as I wanted it to be. I kind of shifted off the topic throughout the article. But today, I am going to try to break down the different types of eye contact and stares their are. Yes,their are different types of stares.Not every stare is a “I want you” or “You are so pretty” type of stare.Sometimes people just stare because YOU are staring at them and then others are probably just staring at the wall and you just happen to be standing by the wall. Anyway,let’s get the P O I N T. ,-)
First I’m going to focus on the “Nervous…I REALLY like you stare” because I know that’s what most of you are reading this article right now want to get to.
When a guy or even a girl likes someone of course they are going to look at the person they are attracted to,but then again it depends on what type of person they are. If they are shy of course then they will eventually break their stare in fear of you catching them. You can feel when someone is watching you…it’s just a human instinct I think. So, when you look over to his direction if he was staring he will immediately break that eye contact.If you see them hurry and look away at something then they were probably staring at you. Or if they blink really quickly…almost like a eye flutter then they were probably gazing and staring at you. I also call these type of stares “Stubborn Stares” because they like you,but they don’t want you to know they like you. Which I think is a little immature,because if you go and talk to someone else they will get jealous. But also they don’t know if you like them yet, so they are trying to avoid getting hurt, humiliated from you not feeling the same way, or getting played. (Remember to show them signs that you like them too..) Usually when a guy is breaking his eye contact like that also, it means he REALLY likes you also. Because YOU are making him nervous. It’s kind of equivalent to how a girl feels when she gets that “butterfly feeling”(I’ll write a article on that eventually) He probably is thinking about you more than you are him. If you constantly catch him giving you the “stubborn stare” all the time, it probably means he wants to talk to you,but he is scared..go and talk to him to make him feel more comfortable around you if you can.
Alright now we are moving another type of stare the “Damn, you are Fine stare….I wanna have sex with you..and that’s about it.”
When a guy is staring at you from your head to your toe constantly, it definitively means he is attracted to you. I know what you guys are saying..well I am a guy…of course I’m gonna stare at her body if it’s attractive. But if a guy is constantly staring at your body WHILE your looking at him in his eyes..and he knows you see him doing this…then it probably means he wants you to see him doing it. Let’s say your talking to a guy and he can’t stop looking at your breast and keeps looking at your eyes to your breast. It’s not like a glimpse to your breast either..their eyes are literally almost GLUED to your breast. They are being disrespectful..no you should not be flattered that he is almost drooling over your breast.Now, if you have your cleavage out all the way down almost to where your nipple is showing then what do you expect? I hate to say it,but then again I don’t.You are kind of asking for that attention from men..and some women…*shrugs*(It happens).This guy’s intention is to have sex with you and probably that’s it..can it turn into more than that..yes…if you don’t jump in the bed with him without getting to know him.But if he doesn’t really want to get to know you…..then that should tell that he only wanted to sleep with you and their really isn’t anything you can do at this point. Like I have said before, if his eyes are always focused on your body when he is talking to you then he probably just wants you for sex.
Next we have the “Creepy stare” …..”Why won’t he STOP staring at me!!!”
These guys are just downright creepy. They might not even know that they are being creepy. Their are several reasons these guys could be staring at you this way.
Number one he probably could just be daydreaming at not really staring at you.
Number two he probably is staring at you for 5 mins straight..without blinking(which makes it so creepy) because he may think this will help with his mission to get you in bed.(maybe he read or heard somewhere if you stare at a girl it will tell her they like you..he has just went to the extreme though by staring at you for 5 or 6 min straight…FAIL.
Number Three maybe he could really like you, and you are SO beautiful to the point where he is stuck in a gaze and literally has not notice he has been staring at you that long. It could also mean he is attracted to you-and that’s it. Which means he is probably interested in getting to know you,but as of now he just thinks you are so gorgeous. You will also see his pupils dilate(get bigger) if he sees something he likes-Y O U .-)
The “Very Confident stare”
This is the last stare that I am going to focus on…it kind of goes with what I talked about with “Number Two in the “creepy stare” paragraph.
This guy either does not really like you so they are VERY comfortable with staring in your eyes…it’s pretty much like “whatever..this is a piece of cake.” Mainly because they are not nervous around you..because they don’t really like you to be honest.Yea,of course they would sleep with you..but just because a guy wants to sleep with you does not mean that they like you. Any guy can “want to sleep with you” you should not feel “honored” for a guy you may be interested in to “only want to sleep with you.” So the next time you may be staring a guy you are interested in and he stares back at you with almost a “blank stare” in his eyes..it’s actually more like an empty stare because he is so detached from the whole situation. Because he has no feelings towards you.Also, if a guy is staring at you with a “blank stare” he could also be “mentally undressing you.” Yea..it happens.
I hope I helped you today with your “Why is he staring at me?” questions…It could be either of those things. I have encountered all these types I have wrote about today. Which is why it is easy for me to write about it. If I haven’t experienced it, then most of the time, I CAN’T talk about it. I really can’t tell you something or give you advice on something I know nothing about. So rate my article at the very top and leave a comment if you like below. But remember if you have a question that you want me to answer then please do not ask the question in the comments. Ask the question on the page where I have directed you to a thousand time already .-)..(Hint:Just look at the VERY top of the website)
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